Sunday, September 20, 2015

London Nostalgia



As my hometown London invokes a lot of memories, some good and some bad.  It was the place that I grew up in and the place that I spent a large part of my life living in.  When people ask where I am from I always reply "London".  Never, "England", or "the U.K".  I've not been to any place anywhere else in the world that has the uniqueness of London.  The cultural diversity, the food, the places you can visit, the history.  
                                                                        
When I lived in London I went past Big Ben, Westminster Cathedral and Tower Bridge so many times that I would barely take any notice of them.  This time I did, and I also took notice of people from all over the world that had come to see the places that I had taken for granted.  Often, when I was teaching, my pupils would ask me about London and tell me how much they would love to see Big Ben.  It was this that brought home to me that I grew up in such an iconic city that people all over the world dream of going to, and for most of them it would be nothing more than a dream.  

To the rest of the world, to all the tourists, it's all these places that define London.  The famous pictures you see printed on t-shirts across the world.  The ubiquitous British flag.  To them this is London.  For those that live there though there is so much more to London.  

When I go back to London it's the memories and the feelings that I love.  Just walking down a certain road can bring so much flooding back.  I miss the autumn evenings, walking along streets with piles of leaves everywhere.  Watching squirrels collect the conkers that have fallen from the trees.  The misty rain on dark winter evenings as I came home from school.  Even the freezing cold winter mornings as the sun comes up in the pale blue sky.

Walking along Abbey Road the memories of kids in my class standing up to tell the teacher what they were going to do at the weekend and how they were going to go to Gary Lineker's house and get his autograph.  Then they'd start arguing because, of course, only one person could go to Gary Lineker's house and get his autograph.  

Walking back down towards Maida Vale and Paddington Rec I remembered going to the park with my dad to play football on cold Saturday mornings.  I remembered the two tower blocks you could see in the distance.  Abandoned because of asbestos, standing there for years completely empty.  As a kid my imagination would run wild thinking what you could do in a couple of abandoned tower blocks.

As I was on Oxford Street I was a kid again on a dark December day.  All the Christmas shoppers out.  Mum having taken me down to Oxford Street to see the lights and to do some Christmas shopping.  At the time a trip to Oxford Street seemed like going a million miles away even though it was 20 minutes away on the bus.

The late nights sat outside of a random person's house in the summer smoking hash.  Playing football until it was too dark to see the ball but not wanting to go home because you all enjoyed each other's company.  Spending hours talking nonsense in the warm summer nights.  Looking forward to the next day as you walked home because you knew you'd do it all again tomorrow.

There was even some nostalgia for the bad times.  The times when I was sick, the times when I could barely walk, sweating, shaking and tired but still managed to make it to a shop.  Going on missions to the other side of London just to get what you need.  Sitting on tubes with people staring at you in pity.  Nowhere brings up those memories like being in London.  

All places change, people come and go from your life.  You lose people that you love, you regret things that you've done but they always fade into memories.  The places, the people, the feelings, the people you wish were still here.  For all the places I've been to there is no place like London that brings it all up.  Some of the memories are sad, some are happy but none of them are ones that I want to lose.